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Intimacy Coaching For Better Love and a Better Life.

Why Apex?

With my broad experience in various types of relationship dynamics, I am confident that I can assist you achieve self-actualization and a better love life-whether you’re struggling with D/s dynamics in a polyamorous relationship, confidence in dating, or other roadblocks on your personal intimacy path.

My Services

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Initial Consultation

Free

The initial consultation is about ten minutes long, and gives us a chance to meet and get a feel for my process. It is a low barrier entry way to see if we are a good match given your individual needs.

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Sessions for Individuals

$85

This includes an hour long session with you and I so that we can begin to create or continue your plan for personal progress. Whether you struggle with dating, self-confidence, or just your sensual relationship to yourself, I am happy to help you along your journey.

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Sessions for Couples+

$170 (+50/person for more than two)

These hour and a half sessions can be helpful for an individual pair who needs a bit of outside assistance, or the whole polycule! With my experience in conflict resolution and communication within polyamorous relationships, we will be focusing on these skills and encouraging growth for all involved.

(Separate individual sessions for each participant may be necessary for best results.)

Book an appointment

I am excited to meet you! Please choose the option that suits you best. While I encourage a consultation first, don’t be afraid to dive right in for a full session if you think you’re ready!

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Meet Apex Leigh

Hello and welcome! My name is Apex (he/they). I am a nonbinary, bisexual, neurodiverse, polyamorous switch who has been in consensual non-monogamous relationships and kink for over a decade. I have learned a great deal from not only my partners, but friends and colleagues along the way and am excited to assist with your personal journey as well.

In the rest of my life I am a pet parent to a beautiful Australian shepherd and trusty AQHA ranch horse. I have multiple wonderful partners from around the US, and have three current D/s dynamics that take various forms. You may find me in the wild at the barn, a San Francisco Bay Area alt-sex community event, kink conference, or sword practice.

My coaching specialties focus on (but are not limited to) consensual non-monogamy, BDSM and D/s relationships, sex work, and personal confidence. I guide from a trauma-informed approach and welcome LGBTQA+, BIPOC, sex workers, the kink inclined, along with any relationship style that you may have. I look forward to getting to know you!

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Contact Me

Interested in working together? Fill out some info and we will be in touch shortly. We can’t wait to hear from you!